Well I was watching the movie "If only" the other day and there was this dialog which stayed with me till now.
"I don’t wanna be adored..I wanna be loved"
At first these lines merely makes you feel as if someone is just overreacting. But when you thought over it.. It has a deep meaning to it. In a relation respecting each other is different and loving is different. We all want our life partner to soldier on. Someone who is there for us as an emotional strength. I know girls sometimes are way too possessive but it’s their way to show their concern. At the other hand boys always keep emotions to themselves. Share less kind of a funda..Always thinking ahead, making decisions .I know they have the best intentions, but this sometimes makes the other partner as if they are just high second priority to them. And that hurts and the worst part is they start getting used to it and sometimes start complaining..
Loving is simple. We just have to find happiness in small small things. And what I think is ..If you enjoy this, then you're living your life fully... it doesn't matter if you have five minutes or fifty years...We will be ready to do anything in a heartbeat if we knew we are really special..
One more thought from the movie and it really touched me..
" I loved you since I met you, but I wouldn't allow myself to truly feel it until today. Samantha if not for today, if not for you I would never have known love at all... So thank you for being the person who taught me to love... and to be love. "
Cheers!!
I should say, being a man I've faced a recent relationship where the girl simply had an adoration for me... After 9 years without falling in love, yeah that's right, 9 (nine) years, I almost died, because I was expecting something else.
ReplyDeleteA big friend of mine sent me a copy of this movie... Of course at the time of receiving the copy I wasn't aware of what I was supposed to view. She just asked me to make no questions and just watch this movie. I've cried for a full week. And at the time of this writing I'm almost crying. 'If Only' just transcribed into many sounds and images, what I think real life is about. Those small, small things are precious and priceless, and love is simpler than our minds expect it to be... The film's message is really simple, just as love does. We ain't got second chances. When one day Heavenly Father asks for our appreciator's body back, it's over. You stay without nothin' lamenting for the things you haven't taken the time to do... Those things that make a lot of diference for our lovers and even for us.
I can't speak about this film without some charge of emotions. This film really means a lot to me... I just feel like everybody involved into this movie have the same thoughts as I do.
Thanks for telling the world about it.
And to finish, I'll let you with one of my favorit quotes:
'In or out, my friend? Is your choice.'
Warm regards from Brazil.
Peace and love.
Edu Camargo.